During one of Remington's many stays Primary Childrens Hospital there were paper leaves posted in the stairwell. People passing by could write on a leaf and the volunteers would tape them to the wall. One leaf said, "I am grateful God has given me a life far richer than I would have chosen for myself."...... I don't think this means material riches AND if we did have a choice... Would we choose the hard things? Call me wimpy but I doubt I stood in Heaven and said
Give me ALL of the really tough stuff. I think this leaf author was grateful for the hard things, the hard things that make us grow and develop character, the things that maybe we wouldn't choose on our own.
I think there are hard things that in this life we will never be grateful for, but I know there are some that increase our depth and make us better, more Christ like people.
I could write a VERY long post about Remy and Down Syndrome. During his 5 Surgeries 13 Hospital Stays and ?? ER visits I don't think I was feeling very grateful for my 'hard things'.
If Remy's "deal" was to come to this earth life with an extra 21st chromosome, I am eternally grateful he chose us. There are hard moments. Moments when I loose patience and I feel like I can't do this. Times when my heart breaks because we haven't found a cure for his chronic pain. So why am I grateful for this? Because the 'hard things' also bring great JOY. Remy is the expert on cuddling. He loves the NFL and NBA like no other 5yr old I've ever seen. He has the BEST laugh. He has the greatest sense of humor and he has these really cool eyes that tell you he knows and understands more than you realize. Hopefully through this process I am learning the things I NEED to be worthy of 'Together Forever'